The longer you hesitate, the deeper you'll sink, the more mud is likely to cling to you, and the harder it will be to finally escape and move on.
Here are only a few of the many challenges and disadvantages you'll experience if you become entangled in a relationship taken a solemn vow to love, honor and cherish another woman.* You'll be alone on vacations, major holidays and most weekends. You may think you're important to him, but face it, you're not family. * He may promise to be with you when the children are grown, or when his parents have passed on, or when his wife is strong enough to stand alone but after all, he's a cheater and he's already lying to one woman. * Yoyr friends and family will be against this relationship, because they love you and want only the best for you.
Sometimes, we lose our heart to someone only to realize that we cannot have them in our life. After knowing this, we should stop thinking about them and move on.If you're unfortunate enough to fall in love with a married man, turn and run the other way, just a fast as your legs can carry you.To continue down the path ahead is to walk willingly onto a dark, murky composed of little more than depression, heartbreak and futility.Even if he is unhappy with his marriage and his wife troubles him, ask him to get a divorce first and then get into a relationship with you. It is easy for a man to get away with this but you will have to face severe consequences for this.Worse, his wife and your family will suffer for no fault of theirs. ] Pain There is a lot of pain and sorrow involved when you get involved with a married man.But, you must understand you will gain nothing and lose everything in the long run. After a while it could get too late to make amends.[ Read: If You Can’t Stop Doing These 10 Things, You’re Not Ready To Get Married ] How to control your feelings?Being in a relationship is very different from being in a normal relationship. Dating a married man only makes sense if his divorce proceedings are underway and he will soon be free from the marriage he is in.If not, then there is no point in having an affair with him.If you fail to do that, the only thing you are bringing upon yourself is pain.Not only are you putting your relationship with your family, friends and relatives at stake, you are also ruining somebody else’s life.