if you create an ashamed overregulated environment they'll look for an unregulated one to ask and talk about things that do not make them a sick person but a human being, the problems is that unregulated environments are full of people who's view we don't like (not only sickos).
parents like to ignore that sometimes their children are at risk because of either their laziness, their ignorance or the closed minds.
parents pretend to ignore the facts rather than teching their children how to have a good sex life (not referring to have a lot of sex but to live a healthy sex life), probably because they themselves don't have one and would rahter live unsatisfied and shamed than actually learn about something healthy.
i find it hard that people can actually set up a room for children and leave it unmoderated unattended while predator's expose them to bad enough when adults act like children in adult chat but exposing children to things they shouldn't i think yahoo!
parents are becoming less and less actively involved in their children's lives, and blaming things like videogames when their kid goes anti-social, instead of them not teaching their kid right from wrong.
if there was a machine that would bring up kids for you, i'm sure 90% of all parents would buy one.
surf the net by all means, chat with your friends on msn, but you don't need to go talking to strangers.
i have told both girls that sick old men pretend to be boys and no one needs to talk to you about sex.i have to say, i have used the quiz rooms on some sites and apart from the fact my pc is slow – its harmless fun.