When you stop taking or returning their calls, they can't stand this loss of control, so they ; "this is the very last time you'll ever hear from me," but then they've phoned or texted you, eighty-seven times more!With most Borderlines, there's almost no such thing as finality.If you value your clothes, razor, watch, etc., you must take them before you leave, or be willing to kiss 'em goodbye.If not, you'll be having to keep this door open Borderline will alternate between diminishing/shaming comments or vile accusations, and loving expressions that cajole you into thinking they still care.Still, it shouldn't be so hard to walk out on this deal, right? You'll vacillate between guilt if you leave, but repetitious bouts of shame if you stay. Some folks develop a secret plan for their abrupt escape, in response to many years of having to fear a partner's emotional and/or physical volatility.
Welp, now this is a stunning breaking news item in the world of K-ent celeb dating, not to mention the second in the same week.
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This is normal, which is why you've put off leaving for this long!
We're programmed from an early age to think that 'right' choices or decisions result in good feelings, but that's seldom true.