Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I have been dating Colombian women for over 6 years now.
When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.
I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast.
Places frequented by tourists in Medellin are more saturated with foreigners than before.
I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.
I have lived my entire life, barring the past 7 years, in Southern California.
I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from some girls here in Medellin.It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that, women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare.Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.